The party

Last month I've been helping my sister to do my niece's 15th years party, something similar to the Sweet 16 or Quinceañera. The topic was the ocean and we decorated everything with blue and white colors. Because my sister paid everything herlsef we tried to do as much as we could do. She rented a house that was perfect for this, and they decorated it. Then we did all the decoration for the candy bar, the bottles for the juice, bread boxes, souvenirs, decoration for the sweet table, etc. She bought the cake and the food and mom helped with that because she has a restaurant.

She bought the dress which was not the typical princess dress, and she hired a photographer who did very good job! She took a lot of pictures before the party that are great, very adequate for a teen. I don't like when they try a teen look like an adult sexy woman. My sister wanted I do the makeup because I have a lot of good products for this, so I did although I never did a course for that (I just watched some videos on Youtube). I am pleased with the results! The photographer and the hairdresser said that I did very good job, and my niece and sister loved it. I was so afraid to ruin the makeup because I never tried before colors like blue for the eyes. It surprised me to see that I have more skills than I know. I was preparing her skin with treatments and creams the previous days, and also her hair, so she really looked beautiful.

On Saturday after left work on the way home I realized that my niece didn't have jewelry to use that day in the party, so I bought a ring, earings and bracelet for her. I came home, took a shower then I went to the salon with my sister and mom to bring everything for the party. I did the candy bar then I came back home to makeup my niece. When she left to go to the hairdresser I did my makeup and get dressed. My sister was delayed so I went to the salon alone to welcome the guests while she got ready.

The people were punctual and almost everyone respected the dress code (dressing white). When my niece was ready to enter, there were 15 person that she chose to give to her a heart plated balloon. We did a line, I was the last in the line because I had to organize it for the music starts when she enter. My niece enter with my sister and started to walk and get the ballons, she was so nervous!!! They both were holding tears until they got me in the line, then hugged me and let dropped some tears. My sister was not able to say a word but it was not necessary at all and I didn't say anything for not to ruin their makeup lol :)

Everything was fine. People loved the party, my niece was so so so happy and surrounded by people who really love her. Two friends and her boyfriend said some words to her in front of everybody, it was emotional. We worked harder but it worth, I've never seen my niece so happy before.

The photographer told me that I should study photography and be her partner. She says I've good eye to take photos, I wonder why she thinks that, my photos are pretty normal. She also wants Martu and I go to her house to do some shots, she likes when I smile.... I hate smiling for photos!!! I wish I could see myself through the eyes of another person to know what they see when they look at me, I don't think they see anything special. She took Martu and me like model to take photos in the party and as I could see there are 1 or 2 photos that I liked, so I'll share here when I get the photos.

I went to sleep at 4 am, very tired but full of love. It was a beautiful and emotional day

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I want to write about some things that are going on last days but I didn't find time to write about.

Michael updated his resume and he applied for a new job. I can't believe that he finally stopped being afraid of everything! He's not happy with his actual job since long time but he was afraid to look for new job and realized that nobody wants hire him, afraid to fail. I hope he gets a better job, it will helps him a lot to build confidence. He also started working on his agenda to add some things that he wants to do, like losing weight, doing exercise, start his own project again. He also is tracking is sleeping with Fitbit and this scares us. The first day, in 6 hours of sleeping he woke up 21 times (1h 6m total) and he slept deeply just 45 minutes. This explain why he is always tired and irritated doesn't matter how many hours he sleeps. He's afraid he will have a heart attack in this way. Anyway he's being lovely with me. Oh, the flowers he sent me for Valentines lasted many days!


 

The friend and the business partner of my mother keep messaging me to invite me to hang out. The friend is pissing me off, he push so much and keep using the phrase "because at weekend you are alone" to forced me to do something with him. Now he changed his tactic and he "is worried because I'm having hard time and he wants to help me" WTF... who said that I'm having hard time? I can complain about work or how expensive things are here but it doesn't mean that I'm bad and having hard time, I don't need his help at all. This man is really obssesive, that is a very good reason for not to be his friend.

Martu started middle school this week, she was excited about! So bad her enthusiasm will not last long and soon I'll struggle with waking her up early. This year she will have Yoga, Chess and signing Coral, I hope she likes it. I love to see how she grows up, she's doing so well. I leave her in the school at 7pm then I go to work. I get work 1 hour early which means that I'm alone until my coworkers get the office and go home 1 hour early :D

There are new potential customers who want to buy a website. One website is for an online radio and the other is to sell clothes. Let's see if I can get them :)

Catching up with journals

I try to catch up with your journals guys, so if you get a comment in an old entry, you will know why.

You won't fuck me in this way

Finally I lost my patience. This man who was pushing me to have a date messaged me today although I didn't reply his last messages. He asked if I was there and I said I was busy working. Few hours later I got another message saying that he wants to come to my home on Saturday after I leave work to take me to my family's weekend house so I can relax and he can see me because he miss me... WTF! I give a shit about what he wants, I told him NO to any thing that he propossed me before so why he keeps pushing??? For what the hell will he miss me when I don't know him and I just saw him a couple of times at my mom's house because she invited him and his friends for dinner? For two weeks every fucking day I have to excuse myself for saying NO to him, is not enough to say NO one or two times? 

He replied "I see that you don't want to share things with me, it's a pity" then added a broken heart emote. ENOUGH... I reply "you make me feel uncomfortable" then I blocked him without get an answer. This weekend my sister and my mom want we go to the weekend house to spend time together and to enjoy the last day of the swimming pool for this season. I'm so afraid that this man makes any kind of drama or tries to harass me that probably I'll stay at home. This piss me off so much!!!! damn the moment when mom told to this creppy man that I could help him to set his iPhone. I just tried to be gentile with mom's "friends" and see what happened to me!!!

A while after I blocked this psychopath, mom's partner messaged me again saying that he was going to try again for I go for dinner, coffee, drinks or whatever with him. If I told him NO yesterday why he thinks I'll say Yes today??? I replied "I just blocked mom's friend, do you want to be the next?" he said sorry he doesn't want to bother me and it was just an invitation, "don't worry" I said then he added "it's a pitty, but well.... I won't bother you again , sorry, I though we could have a date". I have no fucking idea why he though we could have a date, just because he went to mom's house to have dinner with her and I was over there???? 

Is this the tactics that adult men use to get girls??? to push them over and over getting offended if we say NO as if women are ungrateful??? that is pathetic!!!! NO is NO, and there is not reason for you guys keep pushing or claiming for explanations, I don't need to justify a NO, the fact that you have interest on me doesn't mean that I owe you something for this, I don't have any obligation to have a date with you or to be affectionate!!! I said NO, respect my fucking decision!!!!